One of my biggest takeaways from AFLV was the renewal of lifelong commitment. In my profession, I am reminded every day of the values of my organization through conversations with students and other professionals. I know that I dedicated myself to my sorority when I took that oath during initiation. It isn't until I hear from students that say, "When I'm not an XYZ" or even from alumnae who say "When I was an ABC, that I remember that not all people see our sorority membership in this perspective.
Some Panhellenic sororities have done a really great job of incorporating this idea into their membership experience. Alpha Delta Pi, for example, went through a rebranding of sorts to incorporate three types of members: Alphas (new members), Deltas (active members), and Pis (alumnae members). Others have adopted the slogans like "Chi Omega is forever."
At AFLV I attended a lot of sessions on NPHC organizations. I haven't talked about NPHC a lot on the blog, but I really admire them. One of the things I admire the most is the lifetime commitment NPHC instills. I have never met a single NPHC member who says "When I was a AKD." I know many of you have even seen older NPHC members wearing their jackets or bearing their insignia on their vehicle.
If we, as Panhellenic women, adopted this idea of lifetime membership could you imagine the difference it would make in our college years? I was definitely reminded of this commitment during the Affiliation Luncheon at AFLV. This is an opportunity to get to have lunch with your Brothers and Sisters from other schools. Not only are college students at the tables, but also alumnae. Nothing says lifetime commitment like seeing Sisters still dedicated to the same values you promised to live forever.
I love the idea of permanent sisterhood. I've seen it first hand this week. One of my chapter's recent alumnae died in a tragic car accident. Alumnae from all over the area came to pray and support each other with the active members and I have watched my sisterhood grieve together, but also grow together. It's been horribly sad, but also very moving to see that Alpha Delta Pi really is forever.
ReplyDeleteOh gosh, as an advisor, this was one of the biggest challenges to impart on the women. It's hard for a 19 year old to think 20 years down the road. But I am just as much a part of my sorority today as I was in my 20's. Actually, more so today. Joining is truly a life-long committment! And I am still making new and ah-maz-ing friends through my sisterhood. My friendship circle did not end when I graduated. I continue to meet sisters from all over the country and I just love it!
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